How to Make a Woman Want You Sexually

Women feel sexually attracted to men who display personality traits and behaviors that mark them out as being the sort of guy who could potentially survive, thrive and prosper well in life.

For example: A man’s confidence will trigger feelings of sexual attraction inside of a woman because it suggests (to her primal attraction instincts) that he might be a good survivor and may be able to protect her and take care of her.

On the other hand, a man’s insecurity, nervousness and doubt turns a woman off because it suggests that she might need her to take care of him and protect him. Additionally, self-doubt and insecurity suggests that he might not be able to get his way in life and may be overlooked for promotions or favor, which will then make survival harder for the both of them.

Attraction is a primal, instinctive reaction that men and women have to each other when they are around each other.

A man's initial attraction to a woman is mostly based on her appearing to be a healthy, good looking woman of breeding age. It's a bonus if she is also a nice woman, down to Earth, intelligent, easy-going and so on, but a man's initial attraction doesn't look for that.

Aman's initial attraction is all about finding a good place to plant his seed (i.e. blow inside of a woman), even if he really doesn't want to have children. A woman's instincts looks for different things though.

Nature isn't just trying to push her towards allowing any random guy to blow inside of her. Instead, her instincts look for a guy who would be a good survivor, potentially a good protector of their offspring. It's a pretty basic instinct of course and it's flawed.

For example: If a guy is confident and masculine, it doesn't guarantee that he will be a good survivor and protect any offspring they may have. Yet, her attraction instinct believes that he would likely be better at that than a guy who is insecure and soft around her.

Of course, an insecure, emotionally soft guy can do well in today's society, but attraction is a primal reaction based on survival of offspring. The instinct takes into account the potential for civil war to break out, for him and her to be threatened, etc. So, her instinct still wants to be with a guy who is going to be confident and emotionally masculine, compared to a guy who is self-doubting, insecure and emotionally soft. This is why, if you want a woman to want you sexually, you need to display the kinds of personality traits and behaviors that naturally cause a woman to feel sexual attraction (i.e. traits that mark you out as a guy who could potentially survive, protect and thrive with her).